Sunday, June 28, 2009

Pray for mom (and here are some photos)

Well, my mom found out she has cataracts. Not related to cancer at all. Her mom had them too. My mom will have surgery on one eye tomorrow. Please pray for her peace and a successful surgery!


We went to see "Farmer Floyd" yesterday to pick up mom's organic, locally grown produce box and he let the kids picks some carrots.


Mark got a new car--very long awaited!! He doesn't golf, fish, or any of those other time consuming man hobbies, he just likes cars. So I am happy he finally got a fun car after waiting 15 years.


This is what Jake chose for his birthday party--indoor rock climbing.


And waaayyyy at the top is Landon!


Grammy's birthday--everyone is reading their fortune cookies!

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Still waiting....

Well, what have I been up to?

Last week we had 60 kids ages 4-12 here at our house for Backyard Bible Club. We had 5 adults and 2 teens in charge. It was really a great week and I am so glad it is over :-)

Jake's 10th birthday was June 18! So we celebrated that day and then took him and some friends indoor rock climbing.

Of course, paperwork! There was confusion and still is about whether or not we need to submit our homestudy addendum to US immigration or whether it was needed at all. Still waiting for an answer there!

Our paperwork for Hope's visa and our permission to travel is moving along. We have one more approval befroe we get our TA (travel approval). We could still travel in late July.

BUT the newest snag is that China is quarantining people (until they have a neg. throat culture) who:
-exhibit flu like symptoms
-sat near people on the plane who exhibit symptoms
-have the flu
-sat near someone on the plane or otherwise had contact with someone with the flu

A family there for an adoption is in this last situation, quarantined at a hotel with 3 kids and the dad is in the hospital because his throat culture came back positive. http://raisingdevils.com/ Certainly adds to the discussion about taking the kids.

Also, here is a statement from the Embassy about what they can and can't do to help people in this situation.

Basically, I have been *trying* to lift my eyes to the hills!


Psalm 121

I lift up my eyes to the hills—
where does my help come from?
My help comes from the LORD,
the Maker of heaven and earth.
He will not let your foot slip—
he who watches over you will not slumber;
indeed, he who watches over Israel
will neither slumber nor sleep.
The LORD watches over you—
the LORD is your shade at your right hand;
the sun will not harm you by day,
nor the moon by night.
The LORD will keep you from all harm—
he will watch over your life;
the LORD will watch over your coming and going
both now and forevermore.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Update!!

We paid for a letter and photos to be sent to Hope last month through the very kind Ann at Red Threads. But then I started worrying (see previous post below) that Hope didn't know she would be adopted, so we sent another package and a letter and also asked 10 questions. Today we got the best gift!! We heard back from Angela at Ladybugs N Love (also a recommended service for those who might need it!).

I will post some of the Q and A here. From what I can tell, they probably called the orphanage who then asked the foster family. Total answer to prayer on number 1 and 2!!!

1. Does Song Yi know that she will be adopted?
Song Yi knows she is going to be adopted by a foreign family.

2. What does she think about being adopted?
Song Yi really what to have her own dad and mom to love her. She is very much willing to be adopted by a foreign family.

3. Did Song Yi receive our pictures and letter we sent?
Song Yi has received your pictures and letter. She can recognize family member now. she always smiles when she is looking at your pictures.

Also, we got some new photos and some other info, so that helps ease the pain of more paperwork quite a bit!




We also got a size update, which seems more accurate. She will be a LITTLE sister after all. Her height is 40.5" inches and weight 33 lbs, so Lilla has a good 7 inches and 10 pounds on her.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

more paperwork :-(

Let me just start with this:

"But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed....Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal." From 2 Corinthians 4

I have to admit I feel a little hard pressed on every side today. But I am SO thankful that I do believe in the unseen eternal glory!

Basically, I can't say everything here that I want to, but I just found out that we need a homestudy addendum because we are approved to adopt a child age 1-4 years. Well, it used to be okay as long as the child was 4 at referral (which Hope was). But apparently now, since she is over 48 months and might be 5 by the time we actually adopt her (her birthday is August 17), we need to send $340, yet another form and new papers from our social worker. Soon.

We also submitted some papers to immigration a week or two ago and may not have sent all the necessary documentation with it, for reasons I won't go into here. But all we can do is wait and see if our officer at CIS (Citizenship and Immigration for those who don't speak IA, which stands for international adoption...) contacts us for more info.

All I want is to get to China and get my girl!!

We sent a letter and care package via a service and hopefully Hope and her foster parents will get it soon. We had sent another letter and photo album back in April but I wanted to send another in case the first one didn't make it. We also paid this service to make a phone call to the orphanage (even though she is not there, who knows how that works) to ask 10 questions. The thing I most want to know is whether or not she understands that she will be adopted. That is very important to me that she is being prepared for the day when she leaves her foster family and soon after her country, language, food...and all that she has ever known will be different. Can you please pray that someone is talking to her about these things?




We were also able to send a few pictures, so I sent this one so she could see her bed and quilt (still in progress). It's a trundle bed next to Lilla's bed. I also put her name on the wall. And I decided to send a picture that included my mom since she is HOPEfully going to be able to come with us! Please pray for that too if you think of it! I will take with us pictures of our larger family to talk to her about when we are in China. She needs to know about Grampy and Grammy and all the cousins aunts and uncles too who are waiting!

We are on day 14 of waiting for TA (travel approval) which can take 6-12 weeks. Then usually 2-3 weeks until actual travel. End of July travel is still possible!

Monday, June 1, 2009

If you like to email your representatives...

There is a United States immigration requirement now for American parents to have their newly adopted children brought completely up to date with all vaccinations before entering the U.S. using vaccines from China that may or may not be effective or even needed. If you are a future adoptive parent, grandparent or friend of someone adopting from a Hague country (that's you!!) would you consider sending this to your representatives? Adapt as needed/desired. This was written by someone on one of my many adoption chat groups. I emailed and actually got a phone call from Saxby Chambliss' assistant!

Senate:
http://www.senate.gov/general/contact_information/senators_cfm.cfm

House of Representives:
https://writerep.house.gov/writerep/welcome.shtml


Dear ________________________,

I am writing this letter to ask your office to both quickly and diligently work toward correcting a U.S. Congressional oversight in the Hague Convention that affects internationally adopted children. This oversight requires immigrant children adopted from Hague Convention Countries be up to date on all Center for Disease Control (CDC) recommended vaccines prior to entering the United States. Most other countries besides the U.S. are NOT requiring this.

When the Hague Convention was passed, new regulations were issued in the Federal Register on October 30, 2007 at 72 FR 61301. The amendments revised the Department of State regulations to provide for intercountry adoptions that will occur pursuant to the Hague Convention. This provided a new definition of "child" under the Immigration and Nationality Act, amending 101(b)(1)(F) and adding 101(b)(1)(G). Public Law 105-73 provided the exception for newly adopted children from the vaccination requirement by allowing for a written affidavit from the child's soon-to-be physician in lieu of receiving vaccinations abroad. While revising the law for the Hague's implementation, in an apparent oversight, Congress forgot to extend this part of the process. As stated above, this oversight requires these newly adopted children become up to date with all of the CDC's recommended vaccines before they will be granted entry into the US.

It is important to note most of these children come from orphanages in developing countries. Various countries may have given the orphans anywhere from several to no vaccines. Often they have received vaccines relevant to diseases in their country and not required by the CDC. Some may have no medical record or an outdated record of the vaccines they received at the orphanage. Without Public Law 105-73 in place, the newly adopted children would be required to receive the vaccinations again.

As you can imagine, adoption is a very complicated process both emotionally and physically. Taking this into consideration, these vulnerable children may be required to receive a large number of vaccines all in one day, just days after being adopted and just days before they board the lengthy international flight home to the U.S. There are reports of children receiving 6-7 injections at their medical exam in Guangzhou, China in order to comply with this requirement. In my opinion, this is both cruel and unethical.

These children may be medically fragile at the time these vaccinations are required. As the law stands, there is no available exemption for anyone, including the medically fragile. If the family wants to return to the United States with their child, the injections are mandatory without exception.

It is important to note, as the law stands today, these vulnerable children are now the only class of U.S. immigrants that are given no possible exemption from their overseas visa immunization requirements. All other U.S. immigrants are allowed the possibility of exemption due to medical necessity or religious or moral grounds. Can it really be this is a result of the Hague Convention which was intended to actually provide MORE protections for these children?

The best way to handle vaccinations, and the way it was done pre-Hague, was once at home the child's Pediatrician orders a blood test to discover the child's titer antibody levels. With test results in hand, the Pediatrician recommends only those vaccines that are shown to be missing, on a safe time schedule.

We ask that your office quickly seek to extend the previous exemption that allowed adopted children to postpone their immigrant visa vaccination requirements until they are safely at home. Such an exemption would be similar to 101(b)(1)(G) Public Law 105-73 which provided the exception for newly adopted children to the vaccination requirement by allowing for a written affidavit in lieu of receiving vaccinations abroad before receiving an immigrant visa.

Thank you for your consideration in this matter. I look forward to your prompt and timely response. The well being of some of America's newest and most vulnerable citizens depends on it.

......................

NOTE from Katy: I am fine with vaccinations, but would prefer not to have my new child get 7 in one day that they may have already had, right after being adopted, paid for out of pocket rather than through insurance, not under our pediatrician's supervision, a few days before we take a 20 hour plane ride. We did not have to do this for Lilla; it is new because of the Hague laws, which were supposedly created to protect children. Families from Sweden, the Netherlands and other countries do not have to do this. They wait until they are home.

If you're still reading, thanks!!